DiscoverThe Caregiver Cup PodcastBONUS Episode: When You Feel Like You Have No Choice
BONUS Episode: When You Feel Like You Have No Choice

BONUS Episode: When You Feel Like You Have No Choice

Update: 2025-11-18
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This bonus episode is a little different… and a whole lot special.

Inside, we’re diving into three powerful pieces of the caregiving experience:

💌 1. Listener Stories That Will Make You Feel Seen

From practical self-care wins… to reimagining overwhelming roles… to color-coding calendars and using systems that save your sanity — you’ll hear real messages from caregivers just like you.
 Their honesty, their wisdom, their struggles, and their victories remind us that none of us are doing this alone.

💛 2. A Personal Update from My Own Caregiving Season

I open up about Denis’ recent inpatient stay, his GI GVHD diagnosis, the advocacy challenges we faced, the guilt of coming home at night instead of staying at the hospital… and the surprising moments that helped me refill my cup in the middle of it all — like handing out Halloween candy and simply allowing myself to be Cathy again for an hour.

☕ 3. A Pep Talk for the “I Have No Choice” Moments

You know the ones:
 Medication schedules. Wound care. Meals. All the tasks you can’t delegate or delete.

In this episode, I walk you through something every caregiver needs to hear:

Even when you can’t change the responsibility… you can change how you carry it.
Small systems, tiny efficiencies, real help from your people — these aren’t chores.
They’re lifelines that protect your energy and help you breathe again.

You’ll hear stories about bubble packs, care binders, alarms, delivery services… and the power of saying “yes” when people offer to help.

And because this episode airs during Thanksgiving week, we’ll also talk about the quiet moments of gratitude that hold us together — even in the hardest seasons.

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BONUS Episode: When You Feel Like You Have No Choice

BONUS Episode: When You Feel Like You Have No Choice

Cathy VandenHeuvel