Balance in Relationship with Self & Others
Update: 2025-02-25
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There are 4 key components to creating balance in relationships, that equilibrium between autonomy and closeness that feels good to both partners, according to psychotherapist David Schnarch:
- A flexible, solid self
- A quiet mind & calm heart (emotional regulation)
- Grounded response (avoid reactivity, seek first to understand the other)
- Meaningful endurance (tolerating discomfort for growth)
Shane explains Dr. Schnarch’s research in this 30-minute podcast, and here is the article that inspired today’s episode.
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