In this episode, I chat with Lily, a first-time mom who was preparing for life with one baby—until the ultrasound revealed twins. Eight and a half months later, she’s still learning to bend with the chaos, find her center in the exhaustion, and embrace the version of motherhood she never expected.

Lily opens up about the emotional whiplash of going from imagining life with one newborn to suddenly preparing for two. She shares the honest truth behind the picture-perfect twin mom moments we see online—the sleepless nights, the identity shift, the overwhelm no one prepares you for, and the quiet fear of “Am I really cut out for this?”

We talk about postpartum emotions that don’t get enough airtime, why patience became her survival skill, and how her mom’s simple advice—“bend, don’t break”—became her anchor in the hardest moments. We also explore what it really takes to stay present through the noise: releasing expectations, accepting help, and finding joy in the tiny, messy moments of connection.

This episode is for any parent who’s ever felt stretched thin, outnumbered, or unsure—but kept showing up anyway.

EPISODE THEMES 📝

• When life gives you two instead of one
   
• Navigating postpartum emotions without losing yourself
   
• Redefining motherhood and identity
   
• Finding strength through flexibility
   
• Twin mom guilt, overwhelm, and resilience
   
• The unexpected gift of community support

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