This episode of Love & other assets explores the crucial aspects of marriage preparation with Laura Cannon, a seasoned wedding officiant and entrepreneur. Laura emphasizes that preparing for marriage goes beyond the wedding day celebration, requiring couples to invest in building a strong foundation for their lifelong partnership.

Communication emerges as a central theme, with Laura advocating for proactive discussions about expectations, boundaries, and potential conflicts. She introduces the "three-step dialogue" - a powerful communication tool that fosters understanding and collaboration. She also emphasizes the importance of discussing the "Four Rs of Relationships": Relationship boundaries, Roles, Responsibilities, and Resources. Laura challenges the stigma surrounding prenuptial agreements, viewing them as a loving way to protect each other's financial interests.

The conversation delves into the dynamics of change within a relationship, highlighting the need for open communication and a willingness to renegotiate boundaries as life evolves. Laura draws from her experience as a meditation teacher, emphasizing the importance of mindfulness in fostering connection and navigating conflict.

This episode offers practical tools and actionable insights for couples at all stages of their relationship, providing a roadmap for building a fulfilling and meaningful partnership.

What we discussed:

• Preparation for Marriage: Laura highlights the distinction between preparing for a wedding and preparing for a marriage. The latter requires a solid foundation built on communication, understanding, and shared values.
• Communication is essential for a successful marriage: Open and honest communication is vital for navigating life's challenges and maintaining a strong connection.
• Premarital counseling or coaching can be beneficial: Seeking guidance from a professional can help couples improve communication skills, manage conflict, and address potential issues before they become problems.
• The "three-step dialogue" is a powerful communication tool: This structured approach to conversation encourages understanding, empathy, and collaboration.
• Discuss the "Four Rs of Relationships" before marriage: This framework helps couples address key areas: Relationship boundaries, Roles, Responsibilities, and Resources.
• Mindfulness and presence strengthen relationships: By practicing mindfulness and being fully present with your partner, you can deepen your connection and cultivate a more fulfilling relationship.

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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE

Connect with Laura Cannon: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | Facebook | YouTube

Connect with Emily Luke: Website | LinkedIn | Twitter

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PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Channing Allen

Laura Cannon's eBook: "The Marriage Manifesto

Ours (startup offering online premarital counseling)