Big T andd Little T Trauma: understanding the hiddden wounds that shape us

Big T andd Little T Trauma: understanding the hiddden wounds that shape us

Update: 2025-10-31
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For a long time, I thought trauma was something that only happened to other people — the big, obvious kind you see in movies or read about in books. But when I entered residential treatment in 2022, I discovered something I’d never heard of before: little t trauma. These are the smaller, often invisible experiences that still shape how we see ourselves and the world — infertility, rejection, chronic stress, loss, or simply years of feeling “not enough.” In this episode, I share my story of learning that healing isn’t just for those with “big” trauma — it’s for anyone carrying pain that’s been minimized or misunderstood.


I’ll talk about how I went from believing I was “weak sauce” to understanding how my mind and body were trying to protect me all along. Together, we’ll explore why identifying little t trauma can be a turning point in building emotional resilience, releasing shame, and reclaiming your story. This episode is an invitation to give yourself grace, recognize your pain as valid, and start the process of healing — one small, courageous step at a time.


contact me: wendy@wendyparrish.com


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Big T andd Little T Trauma: understanding the hiddden wounds that shape us

Big T andd Little T Trauma: understanding the hiddden wounds that shape us

Wendy Parrish