Is Rent to Own Legitimate?
<time datetime="2019-01-17T19:32:49 +00:00 " title="2019-01-17T19:32:49 +00:00 " >January 17, 2019</time>
Big Why 2: Dig Deeper
Update: 2020-09-21
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Big Why 2: Dig Deeper
People Question #64
What’s up potential homeowners! It’s Roberta with Home Buyers Inventory coming to you again with another article.
I wanted to expand on something we talked about last time with the big why, we’ve kind of talked about going through the five levels and asking why five times to really dive down deep and I want to kind of take a little bit of a meta analysis from that as well where you’re able to then get into why it’s so important to do that.
John shared with us that there was a time when his wife came home just really frustrated from the job when she was working her nine-to-five job.
She also has the role of being a mother and between those two things it kind of pulls her apart.
She’s having cognitive dissidence, the state of having inconsistent thoughts, beliefs, or attitudes, especially relating to behavioral decisions and attitude change.
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Well this highlighted for John, how it made him fearful to a degree. He wondered why this upset him. Come to find out it has to do with the fact that there’s things in his past that he feels he could have done.
Maybe he could have prevented her from having to have a job, if he knew his big why.
So maybe some of you also feel the same way. So when we do our Big Why it helps us illuminate those things that drive us, that motivate us. Otherwise, we so often just go through what we call our normal day, with all these habits and we don’t even know why we’re doing something.
It’s just what we’ve always done or at least it seems that way. When in reality we’ve developed those habits over time so it’s going to take very intentional and an active process to keep that in front of us to continually develop ourselves in that way to become the person that we need to be when we’re moving from the one point of where we are to the one point where we want to be.
I imagine a lot of you kind of feel that same way as I do.
I know when I’m working through it trying to figure my own stuff out in my own head, I have to keep it at the forefront.
I just want you to keep it in your mind when you’re going through the Big Why, understand you’re able to dig deeper into something that you may not have been asking that question to yourself before but now with a big goal owning a home you’re starting to find why you want that big goal.
It helps you analyze those things that you need to do in order to become better. It will show you the path by illuminating those reasons. I hope this continues to be something awesome in your life.
Leave a comment, leave some questions that you have if there’s a certain point in your life that you know that the path has been illuminated or fear that you’ve had to overcome because of going through a process like this, share it below, let other people know, you’re sharing will be a give back to others, from something that you’ve been learning.
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<time datetime="2019-01-17T19:32:49 +00:00 " title="2019-01-17T19:32:49 +00:00 " >January 17, 2019</time>
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