Bonus Episode: Why Do We Miss What Broke Us?
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On this bonus episode of The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast, Dr. Allison Sucamele unpacks one of the most confusing parts of heartbreak: why we long for what hurt us. đź’”
From attachment withdrawal to the neurochemical crash to cognitive dissonance, you’ll hear how your brain and nervous system rewrite the past in search of comfort. And most importantly, you’ll learn how to grieve the good without romanticizing the whole story—so you can heal on your terms.
💛 Gentle reminder: Missing someone doesn’t mean they were right for you. It means you formed a bond—and bonds take time to unravel. Healing is not linear, and your heart deserves patience.
🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.
🌱 If you’re struggling with heartbreak or mental health challenges, you’re not alone:
- 📞 Call or text 988 if you’re in the U.S. and in emotional distress or crisis.
- đź’» Visit nami.org/help
 for resources from the National Alliance on Mental Illness. - 💬 Reach out to a trusted therapist, counselor, or support group in your area.
This episode is for educational and supportive purposes only and not a substitute for professional care.
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