Think your relationship is just “in a rut”? Maybe you’ve just misunderstood what intimacy is really about.

This week we’re breaking down the myths around sex, kink, and connection—and getting real about what actually keeps the spark alive.

From awkward date nights to full-on bedroom boredom, this episode is your permission slip to ditch the pressure and rediscover play, curiosity, and emotional connection. Whether you’re newly in love or 15 years deep, you’ll want to hear this.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why sex doesn’t have to be performative to be exciting

• How “scheduled” intimacy might be the best thing you try

• The real reason couples lose that spark (hint: it’s not about love)

• What adults can learn from kids when it comes to play

• How The Fantasy Box is helping thousands reconnect—with themselves and each other

About our guest:

Amanda Byrd is the President of WTFN Inc. and the visionary behind The Fantasy Box, a DTC brand transforming how we experience and talk about intimacy. With roots in brands like Hustler and Penthouse, Amanda brings humor, strategy, and zero shame to the table.

🔗 Learn more at TheAmandaByrd.com

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