Imagine being told you belong to a faith that is fighting to keep you out—and refusing to leave.

In this week's Madlik, Geoffrey Stern and Rabbi Adam Mintz welcome Rabbi Steve Greenberg, the first openly gay Orthodox-ordained rabbi, for a deeply personal and wide-ranging conversation.

Key Takeaways

1. Vulnerability transforms the meaning of Torah.
2. Bottom-up change is reshaping Orthodoxy.
3. The tradition has the capacity — and the precedent — to grow.

Timestamps

[00:00:12 ]

Rabbi Steve Greenberg's coming-out context and the question of LGBTQ+ Jews as teachers of Torah.

[00:03:11 ]

Steve's Yom Kippur aliyah story and being vulnerable to the text.

[00:04:46 ]

Confronting the biblical verses; reframing what Leviticus might mean.

[00:06:22 ]

Tamar's courage and parallels to LGBTQ+ belonging.

[00:08:57 ]

"Bottom-up Judaism": queer Jews staying, not leaving — shifting the halachic landscape.

[00:11:39 ]

Google rabbis, post-COVID authority shifts, and personal autonomy in community life.

[00:15:08 ]

Israeli changes: rejecting the Rabbanut, forming new models of partnership.

[00:17:42 ]

A painful role-play with a rabbi exposes how harmful "lifelong celibacy" messaging is for gay teens.

[00:21:19 ]

New data on LGBTQ+ rabbinical students and why queer spiritual sensitivity strengthens Jewish leadership.

[00:24:56 ]

Parents as powerful advocates: Orthodox families pushing shuls and schools to stop rejecting their children.

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