Have you ever wrestled with the complexities of friendships? Maybe you've been hurt by a friend, struggled to find deep, meaningful connections, or wondered how to build relationships that truly last. If so, this episode is for you.  

I’m sitting down with my friend Alli Patterson to talk about the bravery it takes to show up in friendships—through vulnerability, setting boundaries, and learning to trust again after betrayal. We dive into the story of Rahab, a woman in the Bible whose courage and faith reshaped her future and connected her to God’s bigger plan. Alli shares powerful wisdom on recognizing *counterfeit* friendships, understanding our relational capacity, and how Jesus models healthy, grace-filled connections.  

Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:

- Friendships require bravery—we have to be willing to show up authentically.  

- Rahab’s story reminds us that faith and courage can change everything.  

- Not every relationship is meant for the same level of depth—and that’s okay!  

- Jesus modeled boundaries in relationships, and we should too.  

- Trusting God with our friendships allows us to let go of unhealthy ones and embrace better ones.  

If you’ve ever struggled with friendships—whether it’s feeling left out, unsure of how to build strong connections, or healing from relational hurt—this episode is for you. Alli’s wisdom will remind you that God designed us for relationships and that, with Him, we can navigate friendships with grace, truth, and courage.  

Alli Patterson is an author, teaching pastor at Crossroads Church, speaker, wife, and mom of four. She is passionate about helping others build a life on the firm foundation of Jesus' truth and grace through authentic, scripture-rooted teaching. She’s the author of Blueprint for Belonging and How to Stay Standing.  

Links:

Laura L. Smith: Website Instagram   Brave Woman, Mighty God book

Alli: Fun quiz related to the book Website 

Instagram/Facebook - @theallipatterson 
Blueprint for Belonging book