But Daddy I Love Him

But Daddy I Love Him

Update: 2025-08-01
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Are we… Daddy?! In this episode of Blank Plate, Sara and Laura share some personal updates and then do a reallllly fun deep dive into Taylor’s teenage petulance theme song, “But Daddy I Love Him.” The ladies deem this song as a “new Taylor classic,” and there’s so much more than meets the eye with this one… themes of toxic fandom, rebellion against Taylor’s “good girl” persona, and the impact of public perception on personal relationships. Oh my god, you should see your faces!

Chapters

(00:00 ) Introduction

(01:01 ) What's On Our Plates

(11:14 ) Taylor Updates

(22:14 ) Unpacking But Daddy I Love Him

(26:29 ) Our Personal Associations With The Song

(29:09 ) Folk"lore" Of The Song

(34:53 ) Verse 1: The "West", Cage Metaphors, Toxic Fandom, Religious Metaphors

(44:55 ) Pre-Chorus 1: High Horses, Public Disapproval, Teenage Petulance

(48:18 ) Chorus 1: Uncaged, Trolling, Fast Paced Relationship, "Crazy" Callbacks

(53:27 ) Verse 2: Good Girl Persona, Rebellion Against Expectations, Struggles Of Growing Up, The Allure Of Chaos

(01:00:22 ) Post-Chorus 2: Mom's MAD, Breaking The 4th Wall

(01:05:57 ) Bridge: Defiance Against Judgment, Destiny & Chemistry, Gray Metaphor, Setting Boundaries

(01:15:17 ) Verse 3: Parental Approval, Shifting To The End Of The Relationship

(01:19:19 ) Chorus 3: New Relationship, Dancing In The Sun, "His Lady," Hindsight

(01:25:28 ) Post-Chorus 3 & Outro: Taylor's Final Calling Out Of Toxic Fans

(01:31:09 ) Favorite Lyrics & Rating

(01:32:41 ) This Song As A Recipe

(01:36:25 ) Signing Off!

(01:37:43 ) Patreon Preview

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Links Referenced

@word_nerd222 Shakespeare theory - Part 1 and Part 2

John’s LEGENDary Fried Chicken with Spicy Honey Butter

Ham and Noodle Casserole

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