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Can You Change Your Personality? | Olga Khazan

Can You Change Your Personality? | Olga Khazan

Update: 2025-06-09
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What if your personality isn’t fixed? Olga Khazan shares how she deliberately set out to become more extroverted, agreeable, and emotionally stable—using improv, mindfulness, and science-backed strategies. Based on her book Me, But Better, this conversation explores how real change happens, and why connecting with others may be the key to becoming who you want to be.


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[0:00 ] Intro and Speed Round with Olga Khazan


[5:59 ] Experiment: Can I Change My Personality?


[9:59 ] Results: What Changed, What Didn’t?


[17:43 ] Nature vs. Nurture in Personality


[21:46 ] Personality Traits as Tools for Life


[29:31 ] Can Older Adults Still Change?


[38:39 ] Solitude vs. True Connection


[43:45 ] Olga’s Music Playlist


[45:46 ] Grooving Session: Working on the Personality We Want


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Links

About Olga


Me, But Better by Olga Khazan


Big 5 Personality Test


Nathan Hudson’s Research


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Musical Links

ODESZA - The Last Goodbye


Chapell Roan - Good Luck, Babe

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