Carl Radke on Sobriety, Opening Soft Bar NYC, and Finding Purpose After Loss
Description
In this powerful episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Carl Radke, entrepreneur, reality TV star from Bravo’s Summer House, and founder of Soft Bar, a new alcohol-free café and social space in Brooklyn.
Carl opens up about his public battle with addiction, the tragic loss of his brother to overdose, and how hitting rock bottom led him to embrace sobriety in 2021. He reflects on his time in the alcohol industry, the challenges of getting sober in the spotlight, and how a community of support helped him rebuild his life.
Now nearly five years sober, Carl shares how Soft Bar is redefining what it means to socialize without alcohol — offering premium non-alcoholic cocktails, coffee, and a welcoming space for everyone, whether sober, sober-curious, or just looking for balance.
This episode dives deep into recovery, resilience, and Carl’s mission to break stigma and create connection.
🌐 Learn more: https://radkeboys.com
📍 Visit Soft Bar: Brooklyn, NY
00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Carl Radke
01:05 – Launching Soft Bar in Brooklyn
04:15 – From Bravo to the alcohol industry
06:30 – Losing his brother & hitting rock bottom
09:45 – Getting sober in the public eye
11:20 – Why Soft Bar is about more than recovery
14:30 – Not feeling seen when choosing not to drink
17:00 – Wearing sobriety on his sleeve
19:00 – Building a team and a healthier culture
22:30 – Creating connection & community through Soft Bar
25:30 – Sobriety in New York City & thriving in meetings
29:00 – Experiencing the city sober for the first time
31:30 – Morning routines, running, and meditation
36:00 – The Radke Boys website & resources
42:00 – Impacting others through honesty and visibility
46:00 – One day at a time: future plans for Soft Bar
Carl Radke
Entrepreneur | Reality TV Star | Founder of Soft Bar
Carl Radke is best known as a cast member on Bravo’s Summer House. After years of working in the alcohol industry and struggling with substance use, Carl embraced sobriety in 2021 following the loss of his brother to overdose. Nearly five years sober, he is now the founder of Soft Bar, a sober-friendly café and bar in Brooklyn that offers premium non-alcoholic cocktails and coffee. Carl also runs RadkeBoys.com, a resource hub created in honor of his brother to support those struggling with addiction.
Soft Bar (Brooklyn, NY)
RadkeBoys.com – Resources and support
Release Recovery – Zach Clark’s nonprofit
Summer House (Bravo TV)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecovery
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recovery
Podcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.com
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5Gjw
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXw
YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn
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