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Child Development Specialist: When discipline begins, why punishment doesn’t work & clear vs. gentle parenting

Child Development Specialist: When discipline begins, why punishment doesn’t work & clear vs. gentle parenting

Update: 2025-09-29
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This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re joined by Dr. Siggie Cohen — Child Development & Parenting Specialist — to talk all things discipline.




The first thing we learned - discipline doesn’t ACTUALLY mean punishment (and definitely not spanking). Dr. Siggie walks us through what discipline REALLY is, when it should begin (earlier than you think), and how to respond with clarity (not frustration) when your toddler tests the limits.




We also get into how communication sets the tone for everything, a real-life example of disciplining a 5-year-old, and her thoughts on gentle parenting (+ how her approach differs). 




Dr. Siggie leaves us with her biggest takeaways on raising disciplined, confident kids — and honestly, this one feels like a masterclass for anyone with toddlers or young kids!!! 




LOVE YOU GUYS!




Timestamps:


00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!

00:01:02 Meet Dr. Siggie Cohen – Child Development & Parenting Specialist

00:04:18 What discipline really means (spoiler: it’s not punishment)

00:05:40 When should discipline actually begin?

00:10:54 How to handle a defiant toddler without losing your cool

00:17:37 Why communication is the foundation of early discipline

00:21:40 Is there ever a time when punishment makes sense?

00:25:16 A real-life scenario: disciplining a 5-year-old

00:31:50 Shaping your overall parenting mindset with Dr. Siggie’s approach

00:35:52 Gentle parenting vs. clear parenting

00:39:34 Dr. Siggie on spanking & other physical discipline methods

00:41:54 Dr. Siggie’s final takeaways on raising disciplined, confident kids

00:46:51 Thank you for listening!




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Child Development Specialist: When discipline begins, why punishment doesn’t work & clear vs. gentle parenting

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