Our final thoughts on the complex verb control through research careful thought and life experiences we have concluded there are some positive aspects of control as it relates to discipline, structure and having the will to accomplish goals with a strategy in place. On the other hand, control can also be bad if you abuse it when someone is exerting their control on someone else for their own selfish agenda without the consideration of the other persons wants and desires there will never be a good outcome because karma will come and get you sooner or later.