Control

Control

Update: 2023-01-19
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Most of my crisis coaching clients suffer from the same basic problem, or should I say, from the same basic illusion. They say that they’re losing control, control over their jobs, their lives, their businesses, their kids, their wives, boyfriends, whatever. What they don’t realize though is that they never had any control to begin with.


The, you know, the only thing, really, the only thing that you can control are your own thoughts and emotions. Nothing else. You might be able to influence others, of course, but you won’t ever be able to control anything but your mind and feelings. So if people are saying … they’re losing control, they cannot lose anything they never had.


And the problem of losing control is not a problem. It’s normality. And realizing this and acting accordingly is among the first important steps for resolving a crisis.




I’ve got one open slot for a coaching client starting at February 6th this year. Minimum commitment half a year, starting at 5K per month. More info at https://crisis.wtf, or get in touch with me here on LinkedIn.

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