Controlling relationships teach us the mindset of scarcity. The mindset of scarcity causes us to feel unworthy, undeserving, and incapable. The mindset of scarcity results in being out of balance in life. The mindset of scarcity causes us to attract unhealthy relationships where we perceive ourselves as victims controlled by those who feel anger and contempt. You deserve a life of blessing, you deserve to receive your birth right ‘abundance’. Heal the feelings of awe & unbelief that you had experienced with your dad. Allow God to reveal to you who you truly are and what you deserve. You are worthy and enough to receive your desire for love. Realise your relationship with God, unconditional love, allow that to be the core of every relationship you have in life.