So, you left religion and did deconstruction. Now what?
Visit the online community for the Center for Non-Religious Spirituality.
Questions to determine what spirituality means to you:

What makes you come alive?
What satisfies you most deeply?
What fills you up?
What brings you joy?
What centers you?
What is a source of delight and pleasure for you?
What areas, fields, or subjects are you interested in exploring?
What makes you feel connected to yourself?
What moves you to tears?
What nurtures a greater love for yourself and others?
What forms of self-expression are the most gratifying?
Where does your sense of adventure take you?
What experiences of nature satisfy your soul?
When or how do you most feel at home in your body?
What way of being in the world inspires you?
Where does your sense of curiosity and wonder take you?
What rouses a sense of rebellion against the status quo?
What expression of creativity fulfills you?
What nurtures a greater sense of connection with all living things?
Where does your love for animals take you?
How can you cultivate self-love and self-care in your own life?
What is the road-less-traveled you are ready to take?
What new human experiences are calling you?
How can you be the change you wish to see in the world?
How does the spirit of human solidarity move you to action?
What are your deepest feelings telling you to express or do?
What in the world most violates your soul that you must change?