Daniel Thorson - The Journey from Avoidance to Deep Intimacy
Description
Daniel Thorson is a former monastic, podcaster, writer, and coach. He spent five years as a resident at the Monastic Academy and has accumulated two years of silent retreat experience.
Daniel is also a certified Aletheia Coach and Circling facilitator, whose work weaves together embodied inquiry, attachment-based healing, philosophical exploration, and relational presence.
For many years, Daniel hosted the Emerge podcast, a pioneering platform that helped catalyze emergent dialogues and shape what many now call the liminal web. He currently writes The Intimate Mirror on Substack, a publication exploring meaning, transformation, intimacy, and the search for religion in the age of Artificial Intelligence.
In this episode we speak about Daniel’s extensive experience living and training at a Monastery, turning break downs into break throughs, developing a better relationship with conceptuality and rationality, Secure attachment with reality, leaving Buddhism, creating a Dharma capable of addressing the meta-crisis and many other resonant threads on personal and collective transformation.
🔗[Links & resources] 🔗
- Daniel’s personal site & coaching services
 - Subscribe to Daniel’s Substack
 - Follow Daniel on Twitter/X
 - The Upper Middle Path & Tech Bro Buddhism by Daniel Thorson
 - Daniel Thorson speaking about Secure Attachment to Reality on the Meta-Game podcast
 - Daniel speaking about consensus Buddhism and pragmatic dharma on the Buddhist Geeks podcast
 - Monastic Academy (MAPLE)
 - Transformational Connection
 - Aletheia Coach training
 - Daniel P. Brown
 - David Elliott - Repairing Attachment | Elevating Consciousness podcast
 
📝[Show Notes] 📝
0:00  - Introduction 
5:06  - Daniel’s experience living as a monk 
13:32  - Going through a psychological breakdown 
17:29  - Discovering attachment work and the ideal parenting protocol 
21:56  - Developing a better relationship with conceptuality and rationality 
25:25  - Emotional attunement, relational practices, and the importance of safe containers
34:15  - Secure attachment with reality 
38:54  - Trusting the intelligence of every experience 
40:30  - Is the fundamental nature of reality love?
44:35  - What is missing from Buddhism?
52:10  - Towards a Translineage spirituality 
55:50  - Is there anything afforded by identifying as Buddhist or Christian?
1:06:05  - From emptiness/deconstructing to soulmaking/skillfully playing with identity 
1:09:29  - A dharma capable of addressing the meta-crisis
1:11:36  - Daniel’s current meditation practice 
1:14:20  - Integrating ethics with eros and clarifying desire 
1:17:36  - Reflecting on the Human Transformation in a Time of Meta-Crisis conference at Harvard 
1:22:17  - The liberation of creative agency



