We all want control. Over our income. Over our success. Over how things turn out.

But at some point, we realize—we’re not in control.

💰 You can do everything right and still lose a deal.

📈 You can put in hours of effort and not see immediate results.

🤝 You can follow up perfectly and get ghosted.

So what do you do? Work harder? Push more? Stress yourself into the ground?

In this podcast episode, Yaacov Steinberg and Donny Fein discuss the concept of detaching from the outcome in business and life.

We will be discussing:

• Why should we detach?
• What are the benefits of detaching?
• What about competition? Isn’t that a stress?
• What do we say do someone who needs to pay rent or buy food, and doesn’t have?
• Where does Hishtadlus play a role in all this? How about the idea of doing too much?
• And so much more!

Summary

In this podcast episode, Yaacov Steinberg and Donny Fein discuss the concept of detaching from the outcome in business and life. They explore how focusing on the journey rather than the end goal can lead to greater fulfillment and success.

Donny shares personal experiences and insights on the importance of mindset, relationships, and gratitude. Listeners are encouraged to embrace a mindset of letting go and trusting the process, ultimately leading to a more meaningful and impactful life.

About Donny Fein:

Donny Fein, along with his wife and children, made Aliyah in 2009 from Cedarhurst, NY. Recognizing the unique challenges and opportunities facing new immigrants to Israel, Donny established a successful real estate firm. Driven by a deep commitment to finding the right home for each buyer, Donny guides clients through the Israeli real estate market with transparency and tireless dedication. He believes that finding the perfect home is crucial for a successful and fulfilling life in Israel.

Donny is also the founder of The Mitzvah Opportunity, a WhatsApp Group dedicated to providing immediate financial assistance to struggling families in Israel. This innovative platform operates much like Hatzala for Tzedakah, rapidly deploying thousands of shekels daily to those in need. Since its inception, The Mitzvah Opportunity has raised over 10 million shekels and boasts a global network of over 1,100 Givers.

Takeaways

• Detaching from the outcome allows for a more pleasurable experience.
• Focus on the journey, not just the end goal.
• Building relationships is key to business success.
• Gratitude can transform your mindset and attract blessings.
• Mental and physical health are interconnected and essential for success.

So tune in, and let's get started!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Detaching from the Outcome

03:01 Defining Detachment: The Journey Over the Goal

05:51 The Importance of Relationships in Business

08:58 Understanding the Why Behind Detachment

11:49 The Role of Expectations in Sales

14:47 Personal Stories: Learning to Let Go

17:49 Macro vs. Micro Perspectives on Life

21:04 Benefits of Detaching: Mental Health and Stress Relief

23:54 The Shift in Mindset: From Control to Acceptance

26:53 The Power of Gratitude and Faith

29:48 Personal Reflections on Detachment and Success

39:05 Reliance on God and Personal Responsibility

40:36 The Power of Gratitude

43:44 Detaching from Outcomes in Business

49:27 Finding Gratitude in Hardship

54:10 The Balance of Effort and Well-being

01:00:31 Mental and Physical Health in Success

01:04:53 Staying Grounded After Success

01:10:05 The First Step to a New Mindset

Learn More

If you want to hear more about howDonny Fein can help you,you can message him onLinkedIn.

If you want to hear more about how you can take your sales game to the next level

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