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Dr. Becky Whetstone: Marriage Crisis,  Childhood Trauma, and How Humility Heals Relationships

Dr. Becky Whetstone: Marriage Crisis, Childhood Trauma, and How Humility Heals Relationships

Update: 2025-04-22
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What if the fight in your marriage isn’t just about dishes, distance, or desire — but something deeper you haven’t yet faced?


In this revealing episode, therapist and author Dr. Becky Whetstone joins us to talk about what really causes a marriage crisis. Drawing from her decades of work — and her own lived experience through multiple divorces — Becky shares how unhealed childhood trauma, emotional dysregulation, and silence about unmet needs can slowly erode even the strongest relationships.


Dr. Becky's new book I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage, is available now at major booksellers, including Amazon.ca and Amazon.com, Indigo (in Canada), Barnes & Noble and more.


In this episode, we explore:


  • Why ambivalence might be the biggest threat to a relationship
  • How to break out of fight/flight/freeze and respond as your adult self
  • How humility and accountability can open the door to real healing


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Dr. Becky Whetstone: Marriage Crisis,  Childhood Trauma, and How Humility Heals Relationships

Dr. Becky Whetstone: Marriage Crisis, Childhood Trauma, and How Humility Heals Relationships