Episode Description

What if success didn’t feel like success? What if the life you’ve worked so hard to build still left you empty?

In this episode of Coach Me If You Can, Ruta Stasiunaite — founder of Redefining Success, transformational coach, and modern mystic — joins Peter for a raw, live coaching session that flips achievement on its head.

Ruta’s story is one of bold reinvention: she’s lived in 8 countries, spent 14 months in the Brazilian jungle exploring the depths of her soul, and walked away from a decade-long corporate career to build a purpose-driven business on her own terms. Today she helps leaders and visionaries redefine success from the inside out.

Together, Ruta and Peter dive into:

• Why “if success doesn’t feel like success, it isn’t.”

• How childhood conditional love can turn you into your own harshest parent

• The gap between your perfect day and your real day — and how to close it

• The three jars method to balance past, present, and future self

• Why clarity doesn’t come before action — it comes because of it

• The small choices (running, cooking, joy) that rewire your definition of success

This isn’t theory — it’s live coaching. At times uncomfortable, at times liberating, but always real. If you’ve ever wondered whether your definition of success is truly yours, this episode will make you stop, question, and redefine.

👉 Find Ruta here: linkedin.com/in/ruta-stasiunaite
📧 Contact Ruta: stasiunaite.ruta@gmail.com

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