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E96. Nothing’s Urgent… and That’s Weird 🥴

E96. Nothing’s Urgent… and That’s Weird 🥴

Update: 2025-07-29
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You’ve ticked the boxes: career wins, personal growth, glow-ups galore. But now, for the first time, there’s no big goal, no chaos, no “next thing” to chase… and it feels weirdly unsettling.

Welcome to freedom anxiety, the strange little space where success meets stillness, and purpose feels a little blurry.

In this episode, Mary and Jessie unpack what it means to exist in the in-between. When you’re not working towards marriage, babies, or a promotion, but also not in crisis. Just floating… and learning to enjoy it.
We ask the big questions:
✨ Can you be successful and still feel aimless?
✨ Why does doing nothing feel like failure?
✨ How do you redefine purpose when you’re no longer chasing milestones?

If you’ve ever whispered “I should be doing more” into the void, come join the clurrrb.


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Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen

Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz


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E96. Nothing’s Urgent… and That’s Weird 🥴

E96. Nothing’s Urgent… and That’s Weird 🥴

Mary Nguyen & Jessie Chau