In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of Ashley Madison to reveal what women are really looking for—and it’s far more complex than the clichés. Drawing on my book, How to Cheat, and real stories from women, we challenge stereotypes about infidelity and uncover the emotional layers beneath it.

Episode Highlights:

• Why women seek connection, validation, and intimacy outside marriage.


• Debunking the bored housewife myth—real stories of self-discovery.


• How women navigate risks with operational security and discretion.


• What men get wrong and how to genuinely connect on Ashley Madison.

Key Takeaway:

Infidelity isn’t just about sex—it’s about reclaiming agency, feeling alive, and forging meaningful connections.

Quotable Moment:

"Even in the world of infidelity, connection is about respect, trust, and understanding."

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