💡 Ever felt like pleasure is just out of reach? Like no matter what, you can’t fully let go, or maybe you’re so focused on giving that you don’t know how to receive? You’re not alone—and it’s not your fault.

In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael reveal how most of us are unknowingly BLOCKING pleasure—and exactly what to do to expand your pleasure capacity (yes, that’s a real thing). If you've ever wondered why you struggle to relax, feel deeply, or even enjoy the moment without overthinking it—this is for you.

🔍 What You’ll Get From This Episode:

✔️ Break free from feeling disconnected or numb during intimacy✔️ Stop feeling guilty about wanting more pleasure (or not wanting to fake it)✔️ Learn the difference between real receiving & performative pleasure✔️ Discover how your nervous system is either opening or shutting down pleasure✔️ Understand why pleasure is just as trainable as strength or endurance✔️ Finally feel safe, open, and completely present during intimate moments

🚀 Your Pleasure is Yours to Claim—Let’s Get You There.

📅 Timestamps for Quick Wins:00:00 - Why pleasure feels out of reach for so many people01:34 - The real reason you struggle to fully receive03:18 - The mistake that keeps you stuck in "performing" pleasure05:28 - How your nervous system could be sabotaging your pleasure08:13 - Why society shames pleasure but glorifies pain (and how it impacts you)12:22 - The stress-trauma loop that blocks deep pleasure16:12 - Why pleasure is a mental, emotional, and physical practice20:29 - What doctors & therapists aren’t telling you about pleasure23:49 - How to train your body to experience more pleasure with ease30:56 - The right way to receive—without guilt, shutdown, or faking it36:28 - The ultimate goal: synchronized, effortless, mind-blowing connection

🔗 But here’s the thing… this is just the beginning. The full, unfiltered, explicit conversation—where we go even deeper into techniques that will change your pleasure experience forever—is waiting for you atEmbodiedLove.Love.🔗And don’t miss out on taking the deep dive into the art and practice of boosting your pleasure capacity.  These courses are doctor approved, the only scientifically tested, IRB approved methods on the market…EPSM™ and Suction Sex™.Most importantly, they are practical, experiential and have changed 1000’s of clients’ lives into a more fun-loving state of being…just like it will for you.Couples Workwww.9naughtynights.comWomen’s Solo Work (can be done with a partner)www.dareyourdesire.com/awaken Men’s Solo Work (can be done with a partner)www.yeahfap.com

💖 If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start experiencing REAL pleasure—hit play. Then hit subscribe. Because this is just the start of your journey.

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