EP146: Hating on the Outside, Crying on the Inside
Description
Crabs in a bucket
Spectator mentality
Call it what you want, but just call it like it is....most people take time to minimize, dramatize, and criticize someone else’s journey just because they feel they can.
Can we say JUDGMENTAL!?
But in today’s episode Coach Kev has had BOUT-ENOUGH-OF-IT. Why?
The second you form an opinion about someone else’s journey without truly putting yourself in their full perspective you commit to a couple of fallacies:
1 - you assume every one thinks like you. (Can we just say how egotistical that is)
2 - you kill anyone’s chance to learn and grow (Talk about supportive)
3 - you’re just an asshole. A self-centered, self serving, self focused asshole. You don’t stop to think that critical perspective you have might not be the best way to look at this person’s choices.
And yet, here we sit in a society full or rotten tomatoes. The second you make a movie, write a book, post a video, or choose a decision that goes against what someone else believes....you’re instantly outcasted and everything becomes a conflict of “my values are better than yours.”
So it’s today that we decree.....fuckth thy haters. You can NOT live your life walking on eggshells hoping you make everybody happy with each choice you have. If that’s the case...you need new friends.
Maybe we can be those friends...come join us! As long as you’re willing not to judge us when we are just trying to figure out journey out.
Let’s get it.