EP439: Is it a Fck Yes...Or Fear In Disguise. How to Discern the Difference Using The Enneagram
Update: 2025-09-16
Description
You’ve been circling a decision—you can feel it in your body. One moment you see yourself freer and bigger on the other side. The next, fear pulls the brake and whispers what if you blow up your life? You stall, wait for clarity, and call it timing, but deep down you’re not stuck because you don’t know the answer—you’re stuck because you don’t trust yourself to choose it. In this episode, Tracy breaks down how to tell the difference between fear in disguise and a true fuck yes—and gives you the five-step practice to move forward with clarity, courage, and compassion.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Instinct Types (8, 9, 1)
Resources & Links
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- The difference between contracting fear and an expansive fuck yes.
- How each Enneagram center (instinct, heart, head) processes decisions.
- The one question each type must ask before leaping.
- Why fear can have a voice but not a vote.
- A five-step practice to check your motives and move forward aligned.
Instinct Types (8, 9, 1)
- Hangup: Mistake reaction for clarity; resist discomfort.
- Edge: Ask if you’re grounded—or just avoiding vulnerability, peace disruption, or being wrong.
- Hangup: Say yes for applause or no to avoid rejection.
- Edge: Ask—if no one clapped, would I still want this?
- Hangup: Overanalyze, overprepare, or chase shiny things for certainty.
- Edge: Ask—am I chasing safety/options, or trusting my true yes?
- “Fear can have a voice, but it does not get a vote.”
- “A fuck yes will feel alive—even in the presence of fear.”
- “Your fear doesn’t get the final word. Your clarity does. Your calling does.”
Resources & Links
- Get your Enneagram Blueprint: https://tracyomalley.com/work-with-me
- Book a 90-Minute Deep Dive Session: https://tracyomalley.com/work-with-me
- Connect with Tracy on Instagram: https://instagram.com/tracy_omalley
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