Gender dysphoria impacts how young people relate to their bodies, intimacy, and care. But when stigma and misinformation get loud, affirming language and evidence-based resources matter more than ever. In this conversation, host Cyn Sweeney sits down with Hanley Smith (Heal Nova Scotia; Check Me Out) to explore safer intimacy, language experimentation, and trans-inclusive sexual health—especially for those outside major city centers.

Together they discuss:

• Why affirming homes build lifelong resilience
• Language tools that reduce dysphoria (and what NOT to do)
• Fetishization red flags and staying safer
• Intimacy when you’re navigating body discomfort
• The rise of online misinformation—and how to fact-check yourself
• Why community knowledge is powerful but can’t replace evidence-based care
• How the Check Me Out tool works (380+ possible custom responses!)

Takeaways:

1. Silence communicates shame; curiosity communicates care.
2. Let people choose the words for their bodies—then follow their lead.
3. Safety isn’t one perfect decision; it’s informed consent across time.
4. Community resources survive persecution; they deserve engagement.
5. Engagement (not just donations) keeps programs funded.

Resources mentioned: 

• Check Me Out — Trans-inclusive sexual health tool (18+)
• HEAL Nova Scotia
• Sugar Health (NS) — Sexual health directory + warm line
• zine libraries
• sexual health clinics
• community surveys

Music Credit:
Show intro/outro music courtesy of: Craymo: https://www.craymo.com/ and Be Myself video

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