Ep 167 Julia Holloway - Get Data / Challenge directly / Alignment / Denzel
Update: 2025-10-30
Description
- Best coaching advice received?
 - What happens in a session is not about the coach.
- Notice what’s happening without making it personal—it's all data.
 
- Still improving?
 - Mastering detachment from being hijacked by emotions.
- Working to feel deeply without getting stuck in the goo.
 
- Most outrageous moment?
 - Dropping an F-bomb in a session with a lawyer (and surviving).
- Using metaphor and creativity to “snap” clients out of logic loops.
 
- What still makes you squirm/feel triggered?
 - Clients not taking accountability.
- Wrestling with when and how to challenge clients directly.
 
- Advice to new coaches?
 - Don’t do this unless you’re ready to work on yourself… constantly.
- This is not a side hustle—it’s a practice that rewires your soul.
 
- Something you had to conquer?
 - Letting go of judgment (of self and clients).
- Holding paradoxes: shedding and learning at the same time.
 
- Using AI?
 - AI helps distill 360s, draft proposals, and spot themes.
- Used as a co-pilot, not a crutch—Julia’s still doing the heavy lifting.
 
- What you’ve learned about yourself?
 - We’re all an expression of the evolving universe.
- The goal is alignment—being fully yourself as a coach and a human.
 
-  Fun Stuff – Favorite Movie?
 - Remember the Titans – because courage, change, and Denzel.
 
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