DiscoverHelp Me Be MeEp 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than
Ep 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than

Ep 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than

Update: 2025-09-26
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Losing, feeling low, less-than, not winning at something. This is for a perspective flip: seeing every place as exactly where you need to be, at a given time. We all have seasons in our life and cycles we move through. Cycles of productivity, growth, success, and then there is also resetting – where we are brought into a new, full understanding of reality. This is important and though painful, it also serves a role in your life: think of it as the winter of your cycle.  


A Seneca quote that feels appropriate: “No man is more
unhappy than he who never faces adversity.”


Friction is how we move into new levels and capacities for joy and depth. When we return to the barren state, we check in with self and with life: where am I and where should I be going? There is new information to be brought in and it brings about the reshaping of self. This episode has some tools to look at your loss or your feeling of lowness as a winter opportunity for inquiry and change. This can be a moment of truth, acceptance, reconciliation. If something has recently hit you – do not panic, do not reject it, but allow the change to wash over you. Sending love…

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Ep 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than

Ep 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than

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