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Ep 30 How Did It Get This Bad? Setting Boundaries In An Alcoholic Marriage Broke My Heart!

Ep 30 How Did It Get This Bad? Setting Boundaries In An Alcoholic Marriage Broke My Heart!

Update: 2025-07-30
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There’s a specific kind of heartbreak that comes when you realize the life you dreamed of isn’t the life you’re living—and that setting a boundary might be the only way to protect your peace, your children, or your sanity.
In this deeply personal episode, I share my own experience of grieving what I thought family life would look like—and the painful but necessary process of accepting that I had to set boundaries in an addicted marriage in order to stay grounded in reality, not fantasy.
You’ll hear:


The emotional weight that comes before setting a boundary


What it’s like to pray and wrestle with God before taking action


How it feels to be forced into choices you never wanted to make


The internal tug-of-war between loyalty to your marriage and protecting your children


If you’ve ever asked, “How did it get this bad?” or “Why do I have to be the one to draw the line?”—this episode is for you.
💌 If you’re feeling torn about where to draw the line, you’re not alone. Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com with your question—I may include it in a future episode.
And if you need personal support to find clarity and peace, my one-on-one summer coaching sessions may be a great fit. 
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Ep 30 How Did It Get This Bad? Setting Boundaries In An Alcoholic Marriage Broke My Heart!

Ep 30 How Did It Get This Bad? Setting Boundaries In An Alcoholic Marriage Broke My Heart!

Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach, Crisis Parenting Coach