Ep 41 The Hidden Struggles Of Success And High Functioning Anxiety With Parveen
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Welcome to Day 8 of the Christmas Advent Calendar podcast and we are bringing another inspiring episode with another fabulous guest. I’m your host, Lisa-Marie Elkhadraoui, Business coach and mentor, empowering women through business strategy and soulful mindset work and today we’re exploring a conversation that so many high-achieving women quietly relate to, but rarely talk about openly.
Joining me is the insightful and compassionate Parveen, who brings a powerful perspective on high-functioning anxiety, the kind that hides behind achievement, perfectionism, and the constant drive to “keep it together.” Parveen opens up about the reality so many of us face: the pressure to perform, the fear of slowing down, and the belief that our worth is tied to our productivity.
In this episode, Parveen and I explore:
- How high-functioning anxiety often exists behind the mask of success
- Why we become so accustomed to pushing through until slowing down feels uncomfortable
- The importance of self-compassion, especially for high achievers
- How taking a breath and recognising overwhelm is a strength, not a weakness
- Why you can still be ambitious and take things at your own pace
- And why true success cannot, and should not, come at the cost of your mental health
This conversation is an invitation to soften, to pause, and to remember that you are more than what you produce. You can be driven, talented, and visionary while still honoring your well-being. Success is sustainable only when it’s supported by self-compassion and emotional.
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