“I can have it all and nothing. I can be it all and nothing.”

It’s not about controlling the moment; it’s about surrendering to the tension and letting it transform you.

In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob gets raw and real with the incredible Anthea Balfour,  a somatic psychotherapist and tantric healer, diving into the space where masculine strength meets vulnerability.

Anthea shares how Tantra and shadow work guide us into meeting the scariest parts of ourselves—our deepest fears, desires, and vulnerabilities—and how integrating this helps us heal and create true intimacy with ourselves and others. Through her work, Anthea has witnessed men and women transform their relationship to power, pleasure, and emotional integrity.

They also riff off on:

•Understanding why men struggle to hold space without trying to fix or perform

•The power of Tantra in helping us embrace our shadows and cultivate emotional and energetic integrity

•How men can heal their fear of power and sex through the support of women

•Breaking free from routine and stepping into true discipline—without losing your edge

•How women can invite men into deeper connection without emasculating them

•The fear women secretly harbor around strong men and how we can heal it

•Building emotional integrity that actually fortifies your love life

and many more...

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