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Ep. 101 The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Discipling From a Place of Realness

Ep. 101 The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Discipling From a Place of Realness

Update: 2025-09-02
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šŸ’” Episode Summary

Let’s be real—parenting is hard, and the pressure to ā€œget it all rightā€ can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah pull back the curtain on the myth of the perfect parent and offer a refreshing reminder: God doesn’t call us to perfection, but to faithfulness, humility, and honesty.


Join us as we talk about discipling our children from a place of authenticity, not image. You'll hear practical stories, biblical encouragement, and real-life examples of how God uses our weaknesses to display His grace.



🧭 What You’ll Hear


  • šŸ’¬ Why perfection isn’t the goal—and how God works through our realness




  • šŸ“– 2 Corinthians 12:9: ā€œMy grace is sufficient for youā€¦ā€




  • šŸ’„ The cultural and church pressures parents feel to appear perfect




  • šŸ› ļø Practical ways to disciple your kids when you're tired, overwhelmed, or discouraged




  • šŸ—£ļø How to have ā€œreal talkā€ moments with your kids about struggles and God’s faithfulness




  • šŸ§Žā€ā™€ļø The power of apologizing, praying together, and modeling dependence on Jesus




  • šŸ’› Encouragement to let go of the image and embrace the grace





šŸ“– Key Scriptures


  • 2 Corinthians 12:9–10 – ā€œMy grace is sufficient for youā€¦ā€




  • Proverbs 3:5–6 – ā€œTrust in the Lord with all your heartā€¦ā€




  • Psalm 34:18 – ā€œThe Lord is close to the brokenheartedā€¦ā€




  • Philippians 1:6 – ā€œHe who began a good work in you will carry it on to completionā€¦ā€





šŸ›  Practical Tips


  • Journal about areas where you feel weak as a parent—and ask God for strength




  • Share age-appropriate struggles with your kids to model humility




  • Apologize when needed—it builds trust and models grace




  • Create a family ā€œrealness boardā€ or prayer journal for tracking daily wins and struggles




  • Have open conversations about depending on God together





šŸ“š Recommended Resource

šŸ“˜ Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids by Rene Christensen

This book offers encouragement for your personal walk with Jesus and practical, age-appropriate discipleship tools to help you raise faith-filled kids. Perfect for parents, grandparents, and ministry leaders.



šŸ“£ Share the Hope

If this episode encouraged you, consider subscribing, leaving a 5-star review, and sharing it with a friend or fellow parent. Realness is contagious—and freeing.


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Scripture quotations are from the ESVĀ® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard VersionĀ®), Ā© 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language.

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Ep. 101 The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Discipling From a Place of Realness

Ep. 101 The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Discipling From a Place of Realness

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