Ep. 174: When You Are Rigid - MVP
Description
All-or-nothing thinking, or being rigid, is generally defined by pairs of opposites. So, maybe you’re thinking of someone or something as simply good or bad, working or not working. But it can also show up as thinking there are only two choices available in a situation. And this comes up in so many areas of our lives.
While cognitive rigidity is a characteristic of Autism, it is also alive and well in all of us to some degree. In fact, as parents, the more stressful our lives become, the more we tend to rely on the safety of all-or-nothing thinking, becoming more rigid as a result of this thought process. So, what can we do about it?
Tune in this week to discover where rigid all-or-nothing thinking is impacting your parenting, and what you can do to manage it. I’m sharing why our brains love this way of processing the world around us, and I’m showing you how to see the thoughts that are leading you down the path of this either-or mindset.
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
- Why all-or-nothing thinking is a default for all human beings.
- How this cognitive rigidity might be showing up in your life right now.
- The thought patterns that lead to all-or-nothing thinking.
- What you can do to manage your mind when you find yourself stuck in all-or-nothing thinking.