In this episode of Parenting Great Kids with Dr. Meg Meeker, Dr. Meg is joined by Julie Ryan McGue—an award-winning writer, domestic adoptee, and identical twin—to dive deep into the complexities of adoption and identity. Julie opens up about her journey of growing up as an adoptee, the emotional impact of being part of a closed adoption, and her search for birth relatives to uncover critical medical history.

Listeners will gain valuable insights as Julie discusses:

• The emotional and psychological challenges of being part of a closed adoption.


• The importance of open communication between adoptive parents and children.


• How adoptees can navigate their unique struggles with belonging and self-identity.


• The role of support groups in fostering community and understanding.

Julie also shares her perspective on the generational and emotional struggles often tied to adoption, highlighting how openness and honesty can help adopted children cultivate a positive sense of self.

This episode offers invaluable takeaways for adoptive parents, adoptees, and anyone eager to better understand the dynamics of adoption.

Tune in now to hear Julie’s remarkable story and thoughtful advice!

About Our Guest: Julie Ryan McGue

Julie Ryan McGue is an American writer, domestic adoptee, and identical twin. Her award-winning memoir, Twice a Daughter: A Search for Identity, Family, and Belonging, was released in May 2021 and chronicles her journey to uncover her birth relatives. Through her writing, Julie explores the intricate themes of identity, family, and belonging, providing hope and inspiration for adoptees and adoptive families alike.

Key Moments:

00:00 Introduction to Parenting Great Kids

00:26 Guest Introduction: Julie Ryan McHugh

01:03 Early Life and Adoption Experience

02:25 Navigating Identity and Belonging

04:09 Challenges of Closed Adoption

06:38 Support Groups and Shared Experiences

08:43 Complex Family Dynamics

16:31 Cultural Identity and Adoption

21:27 Personal Journey and Health Issues

34:05 Advice for Adoptive Parents

35:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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