In this episode, John and Fran start the conversation discussing the news  that the Princess of Wales announced she is being treated for cancer. In announcing this news, she explained that the 'silence'  following her hospitalization was necessary so she and her husband could figure out how to explain this to their young children. That thoughtful consideration is necessary, when we talk about the various ways and directions  communication can take place within the circle of family and friends. Each communication contact point could have, and very likely does have, it own nuances and forms. It takes thoughful consideration to formulate what you want to say, and how you're going to say it. Each "audience" may have different needs and levels of understanding,. This is especially true when the audience is children. Take your time, discuss with your loved one how much to share, to whom you want to share, and in what form to share.