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Episode 16:  Rescue Reactivity 101: Grace, Boundaries, & the 3-3-3 Rule

Episode 16: Rescue Reactivity 101: Grace, Boundaries, & the 3-3-3 Rule

Update: 2025-11-05
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We open with a quick bird-nerd update (hi, northern flicker 👋), then dive into a viral NYC foster moment that shook the rescue world: a severely underweight, sweet-as-pie pup who suddenly redirected on a passing dog during a city walk. No villains here—just real life with real animals.


In this episode we unpack:

• Why an emaciated dog can seem angelic…until health returns and true preferences show up

• Dog-to-dog communication you never see (scent, posture, micro-signals)

• The 3-3-3 Rule for rescue transitions—and why “the dog you bring home” isn’t the dog you’ll know in 3 months

• Leash proximity and handling that reduce surprise moments in busy environments

• Balancing heart and head in rescue work, with human safety as priority #1

• Shout-outs to ethical rescues with trainers on staff (like our local partners) and why thoughtful matchmaking matters


Not anti-rescue, not anti-breeder—just pro-education and pro-grace. Listen in for practical takeaways you can use on your very next walk.

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Episode 16:  Rescue Reactivity 101: Grace, Boundaries, & the 3-3-3 Rule

Episode 16: Rescue Reactivity 101: Grace, Boundaries, & the 3-3-3 Rule

Melaney Brown and Cory Dahlkamp