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In this episode, we dive deep into communication in the birth room — going beyond the widely taught BRAIN acronym. While BRAIN (Benefits, Risks, Alternatives, Intuition, Nothing) can be a helpful tool, waiting until labour to rely on it often means you’ve already been pulled into reactive decision-making. We discuss how true advocacy, sovereignty, and physiological birth are protected long before labour begins, through preparation, clear values, and embodied support.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why relying on BRAIN mid-labour can disrupt physiological birth.
• The limitations of checklists and reactive decision-making.
• How to prepare proactively with your partner to communicate effectively.
• The importance of embodied presence, clarity, and boundaries in the birth room.
• Practical ways your partner can advocate and protect your space and flow.
• How to anchor decisions in intuition and values rather than fear or pressure.

Action Steps for Listeners:

1. Create your own Birth Manifesto, tailored to your values and needs.
2. Practice clear, confident language with your partner for common birth scenarios.
3. Focus on presence, breath, and embodied trust to support physiological birth.
4. Prepare together for advocacy — your partner is your voice and protector when you need it most.

Resources:

• Discover Your North Star course for deeper preparation and tools for both you and your partner.

Key Takeaway:
True communication and advocacy in the birth room happen before labour, rooted in preparation, clarity, and trust in yourself. BRAIN can be a tool, but your sovereignty, instincts, and presence are far more powerful.

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Labour of Love - The Ultimate Guide to Being a Birth Partner - click here:-https://bit.ly/Labouroflove

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Please remember that the information shared with you in this episode is solely based on my own personal experiences as a doula and the private opinions of my guests, based on their own experiences. Any recommendations made may not be suitable for ...