Asa is a dating and relationship coach who also runs a London dating agency called Tailormatched.  Her passion is empowering people in dating, relationships and sex. She’s on a mission to break the taboos around sexual desires and preferences.

Key takeaways 

• Tailor Matched was created from Asa's personal experience of being compatible with a man in life but not sexually. 
• Even if sex is not important to you, you want to talk about it even if you have other things in common.
• A healthy conversation of whats important to you without shame is so important.
• How to start a conversation about sex and how you can navigate it inside of your own boundaries of what you feel is comfortable ('Create a container of trust').
• Testing the waters and boundaries...how to manage asking the question, answering and then the reaction.
• Women know what they want but can be afraid to say it. Learn what you want so you can playback when a question is asked. It's important to unravel any shame you feel so you can express yourself fully.
• We often make other peoples responses to our questions mean something about us.  By seeing a different side of these responses you can react in a way that can deepen the connection.
• When you are vulnerable yourself it creates the space for others to be vulnerable with you.
• The more comfortable you are with yourself the more you can be free to ask the questions and be free with the response you feel.
• Our head runs along with the thoughts about the future or worries of what to ask.  Learn to be ok with your thoughts but you don't need to buy into it or react.  Turn all these 'what ifs' on their head and look at what you are in control of and regain power over it.  Then just enjoy the moment.
• Focus on your life so you're not waiting around for them to text back. Build a healthy tension with text messages.  You will get bored if you get everything on a plate ALL the time.
• We get so attached the to end result and loose sight of learning more about ourselves, other people, who we are and what we want, have a blast being single - all of this is creating the foundation you'll build that epic relationship on.  
• See rejection as redirection - it has redirected you to someone else who is meant for you.  Remember you have created that connection from nothing and you can keep making those over until you find the person for you.
• Don't let people take your power away from you. Always remember that the person who blocked you wasn't for you; them blocking you doest mean anything about you.  If they are going to do this so early on what would they be like in a relationship - they have helped themselves to filter themselves out...thank you ;o)
• How can a dating agency support you in finding your MVP, the wonderful value they can add to you, how they can filter and match your values with potential matches.

Contact info

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Email: hello@thedatingplaybook.com


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Resources 

Tailor Matched - Asa Baav

Website  tailormatched.com
Instagram tailormatched
Email hello@tailormatched.com

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