Why do people stay in toxic relationships, even when everyone around them can see it's not working? In this episode of The Talking Phase, hosts Tom and Pam dive deep into this complex and universal issue that affects countless lives. They explore the surprising reasons behind why we cling to unhealthy partnerships, from fear and low self-esteem to religious pressure and the comfort of familiarity. You'll be shocked by some of the revelations they uncover!

Tom and Pam share personal experiences from their own past relationships, offering raw and honest insights into the challenges of leaving a bad situation. They discuss the role of children in keeping couples together, the impact of financial concerns, and the struggle to let go of carefully laid plans for the future. Their candid conversation will have you questioning your own relationship choices and those of your loved ones.

The hosts tackle the delicate subject of when and how to intervene if you see a friend or family member stuck in a toxic relationship. Should you speak up or mind your own business? Tom and Pam offer valuable advice on navigating these tricky situations with empathy and wisdom. They also explore the phenomenon of exes who seem to treat their new partners better than they treated you - and why this happens more often than you might think.

In a special segment, the hosts respond to a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with her ex-husband's apparent transformation in his new relationship. Tom and Pam offer compassionate insights into why people sometimes change for new partners and how to cope with the hurt and confusion this can cause. Their discussion will resonate with anyone who's ever wondered, "Why couldn't they be that way with me?"

Don't miss this eye-opening episode that will challenge your perceptions of relationships and personal growth. Whether you're currently in a partnership, recently single, or simply curious about human behavior, you'll find valuable takeaways to apply to your own life. Join Tom and Pam as they unravel the complexities of love, commitment, and the courage it takes to walk away when necessary. Like, subscribe, and share your own experiences in the comments!