Viewer Questions

• Tom from California

  Lately, I’ve been finding that I can’t seem to get into any new forms of play. My play partners ask for things that I’m comfortable doing, but then I don’t enjoy them when we do them, and I rarely want to do it again. But I want to make them happy. What can I do?

  
  


• Julia from Michigan

   

  
  

  I recently got out of a long-term relationship with my girlfriend and I am putting myself back out on the dating scene. However, one of the things I want is kink. However, I’m embarrassed to put that in my dating profiles. Most people that I meet in person are fine with it until I talk about doing it in public. A handful reject me after finding out. I’d rather not waste my time, but should I just put it in my profile and see what happens? Or is it better to tell them in person?

  
  


• Cole from Texas

   

  
  

  My play partners keep escaping from the bondage I put them in. It really shatters the scene when they do. Here I am in complete control of someone else and BAM. They were just letting me do it and could escape at any time. I don’t want to tell them not to try because that has the same issue. How can I secure people better?