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p> Episode 8: Lovers - HOW TO CREATE LONG LASTING LOVE/p>
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p>Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! This week, we’re addressing an essential topic: how to see your partner as a lover, make long-term relationships last, and cultivate desire. Whether you're single, newly coupled, or have been together for years, this episode is for you.
Drawing on her 10,000+ hours of therapy experience, Jacqueline discusses common issues couples face and stresses the importance of cultivating desire and growing together. Through client case studies, she illustrates how couples can grow apart if they aren’t conscious of the brain’s tendency to become accustomed to—or complacent with—the people around them.
The hosts explore the necessity of attention and intention, developing self-awareness and awareness of each other, and creating time and space to fill your days with intentional moments that enhance love and connection, whatever that looks like for you.
In our *Erotic Moments* segment, Jacqueline shares a profound energetic experience from her Bali Couples retreat, while Claude recounts an unexpected moment of connection with strangers while traveling with their partner.
This episode focuses on cultivating long-lasting love and provides listeners with practical tools to explore their truths.
Plus, we’re answering your burning questions:
With the non-linear approach, how do you know when to stop?
My husband has a hairy back and I’ve asked him to wax it, but he says I should love him as he is. Please help.
I know we need sex therapy, but my partner thinks we should be able to fix it ourselves. How can I convince him?

Tune in and let’s get loved up!

P.S. All 2025 retreats would make a fantastic Christmas present!

Couple’s Bali Retreat https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/couples-tantra-retreat-bali
2nd-6the June and 1st-5th of December 2025.
Bambu Indah Resort in Bali https://www.bambuindah.com/
Couple’s Blue Mountains Retreat https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/couples-tantra-retreat-blue-mountains
14th-16th February, 20th-22nd June and 17th-19th October 2025.
LoveLife Women’s Retreat https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-womens-retreat
14th-16th March, 15th-17th August 2025.

Online Course for Men https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/mens-sexual-mastery-course
Online Course for Women https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/womens-sexual-empowerment-course
Online Course for Couples coming in 2025!
If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.
Jacqueline's Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/
Jacqueline's retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats
Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Searls. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/
This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude
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