FIM 64: Letting Go of Perfectionism to Embrace Happiness with Olivia Ganguzza
Description
Did you follow the American formula for a successful life?
Graduate from college ✔️
Get married ✔️
Have kids ✔️
Balance mom life and still kick ass at corporate job ✔️
...but do you still find yourself riddled with anxiety and ultimately not happy even though you did everything you were supposed to do?
This week host Amanda Haro is joined by Olivia Ganguzza, coach for high-achieving women, and she shares her personal story of being that perfectionist, high-achieving career woman who had everything but was left anxious and unhappy.
They discuss:
✨ How socialization and traditional gender roles have shaped work culture and why it does not work for the modern family
✨ Realizing perfectionism created anxiety, not happiness
✨ The physical consequences of untreated anxiety and burnout
✨ The importance of identifying your values as a mom so you can confidently make decisions without the anxiety of being judged
✨ How to stay curious with your negative feelings so you can break out of the cycle of harmful negative self talk and learn to have self compassion
✨ How to practice mindfulness as a mom to help reduce mom stress and burnout
✨ How to let go of perfectionism and the social media compare and despair so you can fully embrace yourself and your uniqueness
Connect more with Amanda Haro, burnout and confidence coach, here.
Connect more with Olivia Ganguzza, coach for high achieving women, here.
Time Stamps:
0:00 Intro
1:48 Creating space for well being when you are an over achiever and perfectionist
5:15 Balancing work and family life as a working mom
12:46 Why women need to stop trying to be likable by everyone
18:00 Asking for help & letting go of societal expectations in motherhood
30:26 Letting go of perfectionism in the social media age
36:35 Embracing our whole selves; you need all of your emotions
45:49 Making peace with your anxiety
55:51 Lightening questions
Self improvement, self help, mental health, emotional intelligence, work life balance, mom life, motherhood tales, mindfulness, core values, authenticity, self care, connection, perfectionism, burnout, stress, anxiety