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Family expectations, culture clashes, and career priorities: Who’s the A-Hole?

Family expectations, culture clashes, and career priorities: Who’s the A-Hole?

Update: 2025-08-28
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When your boyfriend’s an OB/GYN and your friends can’t chill





We’re passing judgment, because someone has to. This week’s Reddit-fueled medical panel takes on uncomfortable questions that your group chat definitely isn’t ready for: Is dating an OB-GYN inherently weird? Should your partner be your #1 even when you’re literally delivering babies at 3 AM? And what happens when your parents think taking three days off is career suicide?





We drag a few well-meaning but very misinformed relatives, unpack how culture collides with medicine, and dissect how med students actually keep their relationships alive. Plus, one brave listener dares to ask: “Can I move out of my family’s one-bedroom and still be a good daughter?”





Expect spicy, real talk, and a few questionable ideas we’re choosing not to redact.





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Episode credits:






  • Producer: Holly Hemann




  • Co-hosts: Srishti Mathur, Samantha Gardner, Kate Timboe, Alexis Baker





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Family expectations, culture clashes, and career priorities: Who’s the A-Hole?

Family expectations, culture clashes, and career priorities: Who’s the A-Hole?