In this follow-up episode, we welcome back Fr. Matt Gembroski, the young and insightful Catholic priest serving students at St. Mary’s Parish on the campus of Central Michigan University. After a strong listener response to our conversation on spiritual health, Fr. Matt returns to unpack a topic that resonates deeply with both young adults and those navigating relationships of all kinds: fear of intimacy. Together, we explore how fear of emotional closeness often masks deeper struggles with vulnerability, shame, past wounds, or spiritual disconnection—and how intimacy is ultimately a path not just to others, but to God, healing, and one’s true self.
We also explore how attachment styles, trauma, and even spiritual beliefs shape our willingness (or resistance) to let others see the real us. Fr. Matt brings a compassionate pastoral lens to the conversation, helping listeners understand how healing often involves allowing ourselves to be seen—flaws and all. Whether you're someone who pulls away when things get deep, or who clings out of fear of being abandoned, this episode offers practical wisdom, honest reflection, and spiritual encouragement to begin reclaiming intimacy in a healthy and holy way.
THOUGHTS TO PONDER
We are never so vulnerable as when we love.” — Sigmund Freud
“Spiritual awakening is not about escaping from life but about learning to meet it wholeheartedly.” — Pema Chödrön
“People who are afraid of intimacy often long for it the most.” — Unknown
“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life, but by realizing who you are at the deepest level.” — Eckhart Tolle
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi
You can read a sample of Ralph’s bookon raising curious kids: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FMG1GVYL