Why do we sometimes derail our own progress just as things are going well? In this week’s episode, Ralph takes the lead in unpacking the psychology of self-sabotage, while Jim—licensed psychologist and professor emeritus—joins with insight, experience, and his signature dry wit. From procrastination and perfectionism to fear of success and deep-rooted impostor syndrome, the duo explores how self-sabotage shows up in everyday life—and why it’s more about protection than failure.
Drawing on clinical experience, lived stories, and some honest reflections, Ralph and Jim walk through the unconscious mechanisms that lead people to hold themselves back. They explore how childhood conditioning, low self-worth, and even past trauma can shape behaviors that seem illogical but are actually very human.
If you've ever said, “Why do I keep doing this to myself?”—this one’s for you. You’ll come away with tools for recognizing sabotage patterns, reframing your inner dialogue, and gently steering your life back on course. No shame, no fluff—just grounded psychology and thoughtful conversation.
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Ted talk How to Limit Self-sabotage: https://www.ted.com/talks/azreail_essick_how_to_limit_self_sabotage?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
If Perfectionism is your problem, check out this book from the Overcoming series: Overcoming Perfectionism. Read a sample at: https://a.co/d/2gmVbuL