177: Female Orgasm Tips No One Taught You (Men take notes) with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast

Female pleasure is rarely taught honestly. In this episode, we break down why so many women fake orgasms and how to have real, satisfying orgasms using practical pleasure tips, communication, and body awareness.

What if the reason you’re not orgasming (or your partner isn’t) has nothing to do with your body being “broken”… and everything to do with what no one ever taught you?In this deliciously honest, funny, and wildly validating episode, I sit down with Rat Girl Podcast to talk about how to actually orgasm with a vulva — whether you’re solo, partnered, married, dating, ADHD, curious, or just tired of faking it.We’re talking real pleasure, not porn-based performance sex.We break down why:• “Jackhammering” isn’t doing what you think it’s doing• Faking orgasms keeps everyone stuck (and how to stop)• The so-called “tight V” myth is actually about arousal

• Why vulvas literally grow, expand, and need warming up• The orgasm gap is real — and fixable

• Vibrators don’t make partners “inferior” (they make sex better)• Most people orgasm more with clit stimulation and toys

• There is MORE than one way to orgasm (and no, liquid isn’t required)• Smut books, fantasy, and erotic storytelling might be your secret weapon

• ADHD sex struggles are normal — and there are simple ways to work with them• Scheduling sex doesn’t kill the spark — avoiding pleasure doesWe also cover:

• How to ask for more foreplay without crushing your partner’s ego (the compliment sandwich 👀)• What to do if you have different sex drives• How to bring the spark back into long-term relationships or marriages• Taking your power back in your pleasure — unapologeticallyThis episode is packed with practical orgasm tips, laughter, truth bombs, and moments that will make you say,“Oh… THAT explains a lot.”If you have a vulva, love someone with a vulva, or want deeper, hotter, more connected sex — this episode is required listening. 💋🎧 Watch / Listen everywhere: YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & all streaming platforms.Follow our guest: @ratgirlspodcastFollow me on @sexybizbabepodcast + @sexybizbabe Check out levelupwithtia.com to work with Tia and get her courses