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Finding Aliveness: How to Decouple Identity from Achievement as a Dad with Khe Hy

Finding Aliveness: How to Decouple Identity from Achievement as a Dad with Khe Hy

Update: 2025-11-26
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In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner welcomes Khe Hy, a former Wall Street Managing Director who left behind a lucrative career to focus on creativity, presence, and fatherhood. Khe shares his journey of evolving through three distinct chapters of life: his pre-fatherhood years, the transformative period of active parenting, and his current entrepreneurial pursuits in AI. He discusses the emotional complexities of watching his children grow and the bittersweet nature of the "magic window" of early childhood, where he felt most needed.

Khe reflects on the challenges of balancing ambition with the desire to foster intrinsic motivation in his daughters, as well as the importance of modeling emotional growth and resilience. He delves into the concept of internal family systems and how it has influenced his understanding of emotions and relationships. The conversation touches on fears surrounding modern parenting, including issues like cyberbullying and societal pressures related to body image. Khe emphasizes the significance of living authentically and following one's passions, rather than seeking validation through external achievements. The episode concludes with a humorous anecdote about a chaotic flight experience with his young daughter, highlighting the messy realities of parenthood.

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Finding Aliveness: How to Decouple Identity from Achievement as a Dad with Khe Hy

Finding Aliveness: How to Decouple Identity from Achievement as a Dad with Khe Hy

Jeff Hittner