Episode Description







What if building the business of your dreams quietly cost you everything that you care about?







Jim Weldon built multiple 8-figure companies—self-funded, debt-free, and profitable from day one. But success came at a cost: he worked 340 days a year for seven years and nearly lost his marriage and connection with his kids.







In this episode, Jim shares his journey from obsessed entrepreneur to present father and husband, the single agreement with his wife that changed everything, and his proven strategies for bootstrapping profitable companies without venture capital.







In This Episode:









* How to bootstrap a company from $0 to $60M in three years







* Why 99% of companies won't get VC funding (and what to do instead)







* The "Friday at 5pm" rule that saved his family







* Teaching vs. torturing: working successfully with your son







* Building AI-powered businesses in 2025









Guest







Jim Weldon – Entrepreneur with 30+ years of experience building self-funded, profitable companies. Founder of Prospect Desk (prospectdesk.ai). Works alongside his son in business.







Key Takeaways









* Keep your day job until your side business generates real cash







* If people won't pay you to consult, you don't know enough to build that company yet







* Get customers to prepay—it's the real test of product-market fit







* You'll spend 70% of time on business as an entrepreneur—engineer specific carve-out times for family







* Physical presence ≠ mental presence. It takes intentional work to truly be there.









Best Quotes







"What did it cost me? Nearly everything. Just being healthy, emotionally, physically, relationship wise was not healthy." – Jim Weldon







"You're 99 times more likely NOT to raise money from an institutional investor. Why would that be your strategy?" – Jim Weldon







"Do you wanna make this an experience where you teach him or torture him?" – Jim's wife







Connect with Jim







Email: jim@prospectdesk.aiWebsite: prospectdesk.ai







Resources









* Prospect Desk – AI-powered prospecting platform







* Charlie Munger's mental models







* YPO & EO – Peer learning organizations









About This Podcast







Engineer Your Success helps engineering leaders and business owners win at work and at home. Hosted by Dr. James Bryant, PhD, PE.







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